Hot take, the rooms your in matter.. A lot.
Sharing this because somebody in this channel shared it before and honestly it changed the direction of my life..
Honestly in high school I always knew I wanted to do something. The thing is I was always just focused on trying to get the best grades and maybe to do some clubs here and there and all that other stuff. I realized in my grade 12 year when applying to some random jobs I saw on LinkedIn that the real world now doesn't fully value those grades as opposed to actual experience (btw ended taking a gap year)
I didn't really know what I wanted to do. Honestly when I came across a post about how you are who you surround yourself with, it is really true. For me during that gap year I ended up just doing new things and trying and exploring, putting myself in new circles. Whether it is with tech, entrepreneurship, public speaking, vibe coding or whatever, I would learn so much from these people. Next thing you know I felt like I was going with their momentum and so I feel like my ambitions developed from there.
Now honestly I'm in the process of actually trying to apply to do an internship actually in New York and San Francisco, even though I never actually thought I would end up doing it but here I am. I don't know, the rooms you're in matter a lot so I think it's really good for you to surround yourself with other people who are curious and ambitious. For sure I think that's an important takeaway. Soo when your comfortable in your own circles challenge yourself!