I think if Ari and her fans could either stop fucking complaining or just complain to each other and let other people have opinions that were not weird and parasocial that’s all we need

Ok I have never once in my life searched for Ariana Grande nor have I ever been bombarded with information about any other celebrity like I was out of nowhere

It’s at the point where now that she won’t get back on her fucking antidepressants and act like a sentient being OR at least attempt to say something that doesn’t just feed this parasocial circlejerk, this has escalated to the point where now I as someone who would not have otherwise needed my meds adjusted now need my meds adjusted

Congratulations, Ari and fans, you have effectively outsourced all critical thinking and accountability to the people who never asked to be involved

Her fans are like in every social media site and news outlet like GUYS CHECK OUT THIS AMAZING GAMECHANGER OF A MUSIC VIDEO BY ARIANA ITS NOTHING LIKE YOU HAVE EVER SEEN

And then I click the link once and it’s like wow, this is very obviously concerning and highly aggressive thinspo. Sad to see this is still something she is struggling with and so insistent on sharing. Hope she gets well. Don’t really love Ari like that but I know the ED struggle

And then people as a whole are like yeah, this is blatant and aggressive thinspo. Hope she gets the chance to get well before y’all lose her

Like it started as that guys

And then it was HOW FUCKING DARE YOU SAY SHE WILL DIE YOU MIGHT MAKE HER GO INTO HIDING FROM US THE LOVING FANS

And we’re like… ok? Maybe she needs to!

And then it’s like HOW FUCKING DOUBLE DOG DARE YOU SAY THAT ABOUT ARI HEY EVERYBODY LETS SPAM THE EVERLOVING FUCK OUT OF TIKTOK/INSTA/FB WITH VIDEOS FROM THIS HIGHLY CONCERNING TOUR WHERE SHE IS GROGGILY STUMBLING AROUND AND NOT SOUNDING HER BEST YAAAAAAY WE LOVE YOU ARI

And then it was like a concerned what exactly are we doing here, she looks kind of sick

And then y’all are like WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU SAY THAT DO YOU SEE THIS PIC OF HER COLLARBONES MAKES ME WANNA LOCK IN STAY MOTIVATED BONESPO QUEENS

And you have to realize at this point normal people who had no desire to be involved with this would get empathy fatigue and seeing this everywhere we would say HEY SHE DOESN’T FUCKING LOOK WELL HEY ARI ARE YOU OK HOPE YOU GET HELP KWEEEEEN

And then she’s like I WON’T LET THE NEGATIVITY RUIN ME AND I WON’T GET HELP UNTIL AFTER I AM DONE FEEDING EVERY LAST PARASOCIAL DEMON THIS WAS MY CHOICE FOR AWHILE NOW

And like… ok, great, empowering, we are all fucking sick of this by now so some of us in our state of emotional overwhelm may have made comments like WOW THIS IS A SINGER WHO HAS SHAMELESSLY ENCOURAGED CERTAIN PROBLEMATIC BEHAVIOR IN HER VERY YOU G AUDIENCE AND HAS A DISASTROUS SHITSHOW OF PR RELATIONSHIPS WE ALL MANAGED TO HAVE HEARD OF AND NEVER FUCKING CARED ABOUT OR UNDESTOOD OK HAHAHA WELL THIS WAS WEIRD CARRY ON YOU FUCKING WEIRD BONE QUEEN HOPE YOU HEAL

And then her fans just basically start burning down homes and removing scalps and pouring bleach in the eyes of anyone who is not trying to beat around the bush about her being sick or problematic and hitting us with the incessant excuses about Manchester or her personality disorder. This is my issue is y’all say you are not parasocial but your understanding of her supposed personality disorder (which I do not recall her disclosing btw) or your parasocial connection to her traumatic event(s) is 100% your understanding of what she went through based on what you observed and 100% not the same as whatever the fuck she is thinking or feeling. She has communicated she dislikes your weird ravenous behavior by lyrics and then breadcrumbed the crowds of drooling fans with weird affectionate statements that fed the parasocial behavior she hated while touring relentlessly with no regard for her health or the example she is setting surrounding the issues no one except her fans apparently are allowed to talk about.

I think if Ari and her fans would stop acting like any of us should really even fucking care at this point bc the backlash was concern and attempts to understand and distance and they are just being fucking strange, no one else needs to suffer or hear about this until y’all are done fucking leeching out her soul energy and she goes into hiding and stops fucking complaining about shit she could fix by stopping her tour early and getting help and letting you rabid fucks kill each other over vinyls and perfumes.

Can’t wait until the news is about literally anything else!!! Yay! Lucky me, extra counseling and psychiatrist appointments because somehow her refusal to get help and her fans refusal to let anyone speak on any problematic behavior without guilt tripping when we are just trying to comprehend why the fuck any of us needed to care about this that never liked her has now become the issue of people who have lives that don’t revolve around Ariana Grande and (at least I learned from all of this). I didn’t really know about her before and now I know that not only do I dislike her personality but her fans are demonic rabid leeches and I will avoid anything related to either. I also know I will never allow my kids to listen to her music or watch Wicked, which I already probably would have not encouraged to begin with.

Great, so happy that somehow 2026 couldn’t end without Ariana Grande and her weird fucking parasocial fanbase triggering the fuck out of my mental health issues and gaslighting me into a mental health crisis. You guys absolutely fucking suck, respectfully!!!!

Y’all can be empathetic and understanding all you want, I am reserving my empathy for people I actually fucking care about bc I have a limited amount. I have very little empathy for people my age who act like her while being in one of the most powerful positions in the world and as far as I’m concerned she can grow the fuck up and heal or retire but I honestly don’t care atp because I am setting boundaries and my #1 boundary for my mental health is I don’t have the energy to fucking care about her. She’s fucking stupid and insufferable and has zero self awareness just excessive privilege and it gets really fucking old after 3 seconds of poor me, poorest me.

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u/brratbrratbrrapp — 8 days ago

The only way I can cope with how mad this makes me is by thinking about the whole thing in terms of Skyrim

Tbh I get why my thing about jurgen windcaller got taken down but fr man it’s insane

u/brratbrratbrrapp — 9 days ago

“Boundaries need to be set”

Says the pop star who used her status to turn every professional endeavor she has had in recent years into a devious home wrecking scheme

You are using the word “boundaries” but I feel like you don’t know what that means

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u/brratbrratbrrapp — 13 days ago

Anyone have tips on managing anxiety until my inspection in the morning?

Ok I am honestly terrified right now. I am having the worst panic attack of my life. I am a huuuuge clean freak like to an unreasonable degree and I have had a phobia of bedbugs for as long as I have been aware of what they were. I am a compulsive checker. I have lots of mental health diagnoses, one of which at one point was OCD but is now under the umbrella of my generalized anxiety which is crippling. I also don’t drive bc the phobia runs that deep for me. I avoid sleeping away from home bc of my fear of bedbugs. I don’t have guests often at all because of it. I can think of maybe 2 possible ways bedbugs may have been introduced to my home and I was having some really noticeable crawling and biting sensations to the point where I am absolutely could not pass it off as my intrusive thoughts playing games with my brain and I did my typical panic search and found what looked very much like an egg bc I haven’t eaten rice in my bed like ever and I can’t even talk about it any further than that or I will vomit. I had to call into work tomorrow bc I couldn’t get an exterminator out tonight. I can barely breathe or move or cope with life as of now and I recently quit weed and nicotine bc my budget is super tight because of medical bills from a broken foot and I have anxiety meds but just clonidine bc anything stronger interferes with my ability to work but I am losing my mind. So bad.

Going to go be outside for a bit and I will check for responses when I get back.

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u/brratbrratbrrapp — 13 days ago

Actually, looking at Thank U Next in hindsight

If it weren’t clear before based on her expansive black hole of a heart, this was absolutely not a song she made because she was actually thankful for any of these people for a few reasons. The biggest reason in my mind is that the song was just written to name drop her “impressive” roster of famous men she used for free publicity which is obvious, but still.

  1. She in some way fucked them all over in a way that was preventable and showed blatant disregard for the emotional impact on them being used

  2. She became upset with Pete for making a joke about his own quick draw proposal that had nothing to do with how much of a pixie sleaze she was but expected nothing would be wrong with “my silly big peepee big boy” in her ugly ass handwriting

  3. She iced Mac in a really cruel way with the “I’m not here to babysit you” bullshit and had an attitude of indifference to his struggles and could have easily broken up with him and said “it is not gonna work out” but instead chose to be condescending and talk down to him while he was struggling

  4. This is also obvious but “Thank U, Next” implies “I am dating men who are obviously interested in long term commitment like marriage and leading them to believe I am too despite knowing I am not and plan to dump them

  5. There was that one guy that I feel like was not as famous she dated in this timeframe and was like “teehee at least you didn’t get mentioned”

  6. She has circled back around to updating the lyrics about Ricky but has also since dated multiple less famous men who were not worthy of mention or bothered to write a second song bc you know if she was dating well known people we would never have heard the end of these “I leave a trail of broken hearts uwu” songs

  7. Some (if not all) of these men were in relationships she broke up with the intention of leading the man to believe they would stay together while intending on leaving them as a career move

  8. It was obvious she only dated Big Sean and Mac so she could get a pass to serve up the slopfest that was 7 rings and pretend she was reeeeeeAlly passionate about rap

  9. “I’m so fcking grateful for my ex” and then strings together multiple ex boyfriends to show off for clout while reducing them all simultaneously to the status of “Ariana Grande’s ex” when they all had careers and had made names for themselves before she was ever a thing in their life

10: None of the things I mentioned were exaggerated or an unwarranted or baseless attack on her character, it was literally just the way she treated them all
I made a new one for her new less relevant man over recent years

Ooh yeah there was MikeeeEeeyyyy
What tha fuqqq social houSSeeee

And babyyy yeah there was DaltooooOOoON
He could sell me a hoUseeeE

OooO yea and there waS EthanNNnNnNn
I homewrecked him so now I’m pretty sure he lives alone in his hooooOuse

And yet again we have RickYYyYyY
His career got rough so I let him live in my hoooOoOuse

u/brratbrratbrrapp — 14 days ago
▲ 52 r/d4vd2

How does Blair Berk see herself as a feminist, are you serious?

If it were not bad enough that she has defended other high profile r*pists and men who have been accused of some pretty disgusting crimes against women, she is now defending the pdf murderer who savagely dismembered a little girl after years of grooming and s*xual abuse?

Hey, Blair Berk, if you’re out there could you do me a favor and SIT TF DOWN?!?

Feminist my ass, she’s disgusting. And before you say “that’s her job…” I AM WELL AWARE BUT SOME OF US HAVE MORALS AND INTEGRITY AND THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF MONEY YOU COULD PAY ME TO GET ME TO DEFEND THAT SUBHUMAN MONSTER CREEP.

Hope Blair’s conscience doesn’t let this one slide, if it doesn’t bother her she’s likely a sociopath.

Justice for Celeste 🕊️

u/brratbrratbrrapp — 3 months ago

How tf does Blair Berk think she is a feminist, excuse me?

If it were not bad enough that she has defended other high profile r*pists and men who have been accused of some pretty disgusting crimes against women, she is now defending the pdf murderer who savagely dismembered a little girl after years of grooming and s*xual abuse?

Hey, Blair Berk, if you’re out there could you do me a favor and SIT TF DOWN?!?

Feminist my ass, she’s disgusting. And before you say “that’s her job…” I AM WELL AWARE BUT SOME OF US HAVE MORALS AND INTEGRITY AND THERE IS NO AMOUNT OF MONEY YOU COULD PAY ME TO GET ME TO DEFEND THAT SUBHUMAN MONSTER CREEP.

Hope Blair’s conscience doesn’t let this one slide, if it doesn’t bother her she’s likely a sociopath.

Justice for Celeste 🕊️

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u/brratbrratbrrapp — 3 months ago
▲ 5 r/sepsis

So I have always had oily skin and occasional breakouts, but since my experience with severe sepsis from a pneumonia/shingles infection in November of 2023 I have had an insane amount of skin issues. I know it could partially be shingles related, however I feel like there might be some kind of issue with my immunity or circulation that is causing serious issues with wound healing and infection. In addition, I am almost constantly experiencing cysts, nodules, pustules, and carbuncles mostly on my face, neck, shoulders, and torso. I have what appears to be acne that turns into sloughy lesions that weep clear fluid and have what appears to be a biofilm like layer in the wound bed. Antibiotics will improve it and clear it up usually, but it happens way more frequently.

I am a very clean person and wash all of my laundry on the hottest setting with laundry sanitizer. I constantly clean, vacuum, disinfect, etc. I have good hand hygiene and keep my nails short. I shower daily.

Prior to my experience with sepsis, I never experienced skin issues like this. Prior to that when I lived with my ex and his family, the living conditions were exponentially more unhygienic and crowded as I am a very clean person and they were not.

I’m just curious if anyone else has experienced anything similar and would care to share what works for them? I am awaiting a referral to see a dermatologist as well.

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u/brratbrratbrrapp — 4 months ago
▲ 3 r/d4vd2

She did not have a tattoo on her pinky. What would have been the point of severing that?

There is so much evidence to support he had read MPD Psycho (the detective with the alter ego committing murders was ripped right from that manga)

The rest of the dismemberment mirrored the dismemberment from that anime almost exactly

He was obviously delusional and engrossed in the idea that his life was an anime/manga. He went to an anime convention a few months afterwards, his “Rehab” video. Dude made it his whole personality

Left eye was completely missing and when you look at that with the other parallels to MPD Psycho, it’s way more likely than not that he copied it

People need to look at all the facts and the context before they dismiss the copycat killer theory because in my opinion all the signs are there. He was trying to live out his fantasy of being an anime killer and he thought his wealth and success would shield him from accountability.

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u/brratbrratbrrapp — 4 months ago