Which girl name embodies warmth & gentility?
Adira
Adina
Bluma
Aluma
Bryna
Livia
Mia
Mili
Mina
Rina
Adira
Adina
Bluma
Aluma
Bryna
Livia
Mia
Mili
Mina
Rina
After MONTHS of waffling about my pen name, I have finally decided on one. I brought a few different ones here and thanks to the feedback I got, I was able to narrow it down.
I can't use my real name because its recognized in my particular day job industry, and also want to stay unknown to family and friends unless I choose. A pen name is no guarantee of that, but I do feel a bit better with one.
I am still in the querying trenches, but have had wonderful feedback from beta readers and am part of a small online group run by some published authors of the genre. I feel like I am well on my way!
So now, the reveal. My pen name is...
Minna Aster.
Minna, because M names feel like me. Because it feels sort of vintage but also gentle. Because it has ties to my heritage.
Aster because I used to pick pretty asters for my grandmother in the field of wildflowers near her house when I was a child. I loved them, and purple is my favourite colour.
Thank you name nerds for helping me *not* choose Minka, which is cute but also, as I have learned, reminds people of a woman's nether-regions or a merkin, lol.
No hate at all to Filipino people. My community has a lot of Filipinos and I have some Filipino friends.
Also, this isn't a critique, just genuine curiosity.
Filipinos seem to name their kids a wide variety of things. I have noticed that cutesy names are really popular. I knew twins named Hershey & Honey, a woman named Bumbum. That was not her nickname but her government name.
I knew a toddler named Princess Mary and her father did not like when anyone simply called her Mary.
The most intriguing one for me is non-Filipino surnames used as first names for Filipino children. I know a Filipino teen boy named MacGregor. Wouldn't that be like a white person naming their child Wang or Ling?
I also know of a Filipino woman named Irish. Wouldn't that be like an Irish person naming their child Filipina.
Either way, I think people should name their kids whatever they like (within reason like as long as the kid won't suffer lol). Its nice seeing unusual names!
I think its cute and underused.