u/bumblebee33C

I'm considering relinquishing my unborn daughter after I give birth due to mental and physical health reasons. I want to stay in contact with her, hopefully every week and still be in her life for as long as she allows me.I want to know what the experience has been for adoptive parents involved in open adoption with the birth mother.

Do many of you cut off contact with the birth mother after some time? This is what I am most afraid of. I don't have any drug or drinking problems, I'm well educated so I don't have those reasons for the adoptive family to cut me off

Also what should I look for in an adoptive family?

I'm based in Australia.