u/bumbumlover96

This is the angriest I’ve ever been at an episode because Eddys behaviour is scary and emotionally abusive.

I’ve been commenting and seen other commenters. I have not seen one person say Jenna was right to behave the way she did. Every defender of Jenna is just saying that, it wasn’t just Jenna at fault and that the demotion seems to be eddy related more so than her drunk and destructive behaviour.

ALL Jenna did before the tantrum was play two guys. And the “victim” played her first, except it was far worse because he was very gross about it. She is not an angel here but she’s just doing exactly what was done to her.

Eddys timeline to Jenna of scary behaviour that seems like misunderstandings or fuck ups, but is more so scary intense behaviour

- when she’s interested he expresses interest back and they kiss. Immediately after he’s not shy of expressing behind her back he would dump her in a second. Also lets another girl clearly in competition compare and pass comments encouraging competition for himself.

- Jenna moves onto Ben because Eddy is mixed signals but then they are interested in each other again so he wants to take her on a date

- in that whole date it might seem just like a bad date, but he did not listen to her and everytime she stated “I like this” “I like to wear this” he corrected her and decided what answers he wanted to hear himself. So he basically went on a date and told this woman “I do not care about your likes and interests if your dating me I’m going to decide them for you”. That is INTENSE after one date. It seems harmless at the start of him joking with her. If she dates this man how real will it be when he is deciding her activities and what she likes to wear and do. That wasn’t a sign of going to fast that was a very very big controlling red flag

- Jenna isn’t happy with date and could have been nicer about it. Also really fucking sneaky with the kiss with Ben then cuddle with Eddy. But she BROKE it off with Eddy after.

- Jenna is SINGLE now or was single anyway and just informed Eddy she’s not interested. The text was sly but she didn’t get a response. Immediately she’s probably like fuck that was embarrassing. But then he shows the text to Ben. Now Ben knows and soon the whole boat knows

- because Jenna was a little messy with men on the boat which is completely normal for the men to do to women it had a snowball affect of her being in a mood about the situation to everyone isolating her for said mood. While Eddy who started spreading the drama sits there laughing with Barbie in her face.

- Jenna continues to have a mood, which was a bit much but I can see why considering all of the above and now suddenly having the whole crew seem annoyed at her

-nobody wants to engage with her, she fights with Ben and she’s messy drunk now. They get back to the place and she’s going nuts. She should have gone to bed and not approached Eddy, but I’m not fucking surprised that she went mental because guess what Eddy did. Lied to her fucking face about showing Ben the texts. So he’s just gaslighting and angry drunk woman knowing she will react more.

- asks for a hug the next day- doesn’t get hug so reports to captain. I actually think he wanted the hug because he got nowhere flirting with Barbie. So now Jenna has ruined his time on the boat and because of the boat romance and drama he fueled he wants to take the whole team down with her. Now Jason uses that while demoting Jenna teaching her the lesson of “don’t hurt boys feelings” instead of “don’t drink too much on charter and have aggressive destructive behaviour.

So now everyone feels sorry for poor Eddy who let’s not forget purposely sat by himself at the beaching hoping it would get him attention.

Jenna being demoted should have been strictly about her destructive and aggressive behaviour. The fact that Eddy was brought up in the conversation of her being demoted is absolutely vile. I am so so mad. I don’t agree it should have been a demotion, but whatever punishment she got it should have been strictly to do with her behaviour.
So because of Eddy now Jenna probably has in her head that the romances affected her work. Instead of her actual behaviour which is a piss poor message from the captain. Seriously fuck that I am actually so fucking annoyed.

And yes Jenna took responsibility and said she would take her punishment. Eddys on WWHL laughing at shoving the camera man. I love an equal gendered world!!!

Edit: none of my post is excusing any of bens behaviour. I commented below reasons why. But I am firm that my lack of comments on his involvement isn’t excusing anything he has done.