Declutter ?
Okay so I need some help with declutterring my room.
I’ve lived in my childhood home for years. And I have some items like body lotion and creams and sprays. And I changed how I wanna smell, I have my forever scent and it’s all over my drawer top. I’m somewhat sentimental and have a very strict mother who always is looking at my stuff. She’ll look through my things then question why and I’ll always give my reasons and she’s the reason I give up have the time. It’s ridiculous questions after questions after questions. I’m at a point where I’m going to just throw everything away and start fresh.
Another things is clothes, I have gotten rid of so many clothes yet I still have so much due to her over stepping and looking through the things I’ve “gotten rid” of, I’m an adult, thinking of moving out (but can’t because I don’t make enough to live alone still even after saving) I have always cleaned out my room and it gets messy (again my fault) but she over steps too many times.
I know what I need and don’t need but she’s home too many days now and we don’t have many trash bags and for me to throw things out because she notices things so fast.
I also don’t have a car or a license due to no one teaching me. BUT I RECENTLY GOT A PERMIT ON MY OWN TIME. Just had to uber there. I’m slowly trying to get my life on track but just feels like I’m doing everything behind her back and it’s scary to think about.
Apologies for ranting or things just looking like an excuse but it’s been like this for years. She has never helped me to be an adult. She just raises me to grow up and get a job and never how to be an adult. I still live at home but she refuses to help me but criticize me for anything I do. I feel stuck but then she says I put myself there.