u/callmecapricious

new content idea for WuShang, they should host a show where their friends come to roast the entire WuShang (just like rost of sidemen) it would be so fucking funny and epic to watch. upvote this post so this msg reach to the group leader. (vao)

we work in the same project, initially there were only two of us in the project and so i used to sit next to her, we instantly became friends because our vibe matched so much and we had same mindset to work life. we were so close friends that her enitre family knew me by name and we used to talk alot and chat alot we saw movies together we show stand up shows together etc.

in the starting of 2025 she went to massive breakdown her 6-7 month relationship came to an end and they were supposed to get engaged in January 2025 but it was called off it was arranged marriage set up so families were involved. she was so devestated and lost i gave her comfort and all the advice that i can give to pull her out from the breakdown, i put genuinely so much efforts and i was always available for her, she used rant to me about everything about her family and what she had planned in relationship and how it came to end, and i used to listen her because i thought sometimea someone just need an ear to listen to, i also used to give her some advice. she literally told me once that "thank you always being with me you are the only reason i look forward to come to office" and other nice things and that frendship was so precious to me at that time

ff to june 2025 she was mentally stable and were doing good and everything came back to normal, and i went through a breakup (a relationship i had from college time) and i was so lost and did not what to do, and she (my colleague)was only female friend of mine where i can be vulnerable,mind you i do have male best friend from my college time aswell but he is in other city now she was the second closest friend to me. i thought she has been through the same situation so she would understand me or help me in some ways. but as soon as she got to know i am not doing good mentally she started ignoring me, no replies, i sometimes used to cry at my desk she would just look at me and ignore and leave the place and did not even check on me once if i am doing good or not. and only i know how i passed those 2-3 months and i realised that the friendship is only one sided and only i put efforts and she just liked all the attention i used to give her (i am saying this by considering so many things)

now our project has moved to new team and it is 7 people team and we both still sit next to eachother but i have litimed my communication with her, after this experience, few weeks back she was crying on her desk idk what happened to her, but i did not give a fuck and did not ask whats wrong and she kept crying (lagne do bura bc mujhe bhi laga tha) ever since then whenever i ask her some work related stuff she never answers me properly she answers like she despise me and makes me regret asking her. i know if i confront her this she will tell i am replying naturally it is just you who feels that i am not answering correctly so i am not going to confront this, and i have seen her replying to others aswell and she is always happy and bubbly replying to them (who give her attention) and when i come to ask she just makes face and shows passive aggressiveness i am literally fed up of her behaviour is there anything i can do