u/catsrtheloml

▲ 20 r/ADHDPH

Reward-seeking behaviors

Did you notice these kinds of behavior too before you were medicated or as a kid?

Mine was with food and it's a thing ever since I was a kid. It's kinda funny but I used to eat my baon agad on my way to school pa lang even when I was meant to have it dapat sa recess. I also blow my pocket money and cash gifts from godparents agad as a kid. Ayon, all of these years I thought all of it was just a moral failure on my part. For my parents, I'm just their irresponsible kid (because my siblings can easily save up).

It's just one of the symptoms but it fits the bigger picture and I hate that no one caught it earlier.

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u/catsrtheloml — 7 days ago
▲ 168 r/AskPinay

Restore my respect for men. Tell me about your wonderful long-term partners. What makes them kind and respectable?

And not just con artists who present themselves as good people while keeping questionable views on women?

I'm chronically online and I tend to be looped in on spaces that are saturated with women's issues. I also often find myself reading on AskPinoyMen, encountering men who may hold respectable jobs and present as family-oriented but may hold mysoginistic views deep down (that they unleash online apparently).

I know it's fatalistic and cynical of me but I really don't trust men now. Even though I have an amazing brother and an even better dad (not perfect, but good).

Anyway, I DON'T NEED ADVICE. I already dissect my own thinking (I know my sample sizes are skewed and therefore cannot make objective conclusions based on that) and am taking action to prevent myself from going down the slope. Hence, I just need some good stories to interrupt the stream of bad ones.

By any means, use this post brag about your SOs. As girlies, what makes you trust them still?

PLEASE KEEP THE STORIES COMING. I APPRECIATE IT ALL AND I LOVE THAY FOR YOU GIRLIES.

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u/catsrtheloml — 21 days ago