What this bother you too?
So tonight I had people over for fireworks an my wife's friend brought her boyfriend of like 15 years and at first he seemed like a alright guy an i went out of my way to talk make him feel welcome. Then at some point in the night while lighting of fireworks I was handing out lit sparklers. We had about 20 packs so we were trying to get rid of them. Tbh everyone liked them an people were even drawing their name on the ground with them. When I went to hand one to my wife's friend boyfriend he kinda laughed an say na im cool. I said alright bro and he said "do your little pom pom things with them like the girls were doing". At first I walked away and thought to myself was he being intentionally disrespectful or not. I couldn't help but feel like he was so i went back over to him and asked him what did u just say. And he did say what I thought he did. I told him I didnt appreciate that ciz mind u I've never met this guy a day in my life so to be making cheerleader jokes at me felt very disrespectful to the point where I couldn't jist ignore. What do yal think, is that something yal would of jist took and ignored or would yal have done the same thing. Cuz my wife wanted us to get along an so did I but I felt it was very disrespectful.