Experimenting with adding third to marriage bedroom
My wife told me she had a sex dream with a woman. We discussed about it but my wife felt very embarrassed and shy. She told me what the girl looked like in her dream as well as her preferences for what she likes in a girl.
I do know she’s been curious about women when she was younger.
I asked if she’d be interested in sleeping with a woman but she has expressed she doesn’t want to perform oral on a woman. She’d only prefer a woman to perform oral on her and she prefers a feminine one.
I told her that if she’d ever be interested to be open and talk to me about it. She was uncomfortable telling me more but said maybe to bringing a woman in our bedroom. I also told her that if this was something she wanted to pursue that there needed to be boundaries discussed in making sure her and I were on the same page
I’m not opposed to the idea and have actually recently had dreams as well of her bringing a girl into our marriage bed.
For men who have had this happen; what eventually got you guys to bring a girl into your bed and did it occur organically or did you seek one out? Did you guys seek out together? How was the experience? Was your wife friends with them first or did they become friends after and is it strictly sex or?
What type of boundaries are there? Like I’m only allowed to finish inside my wife and not the other girl?
I also know my wife is picky. We both lead very active lifestyles, are fairly young, and she has a bbl, breast implants and her body is very beautiful and natural looking. How do we find someone that matches this aesthetic and lifestyle ?
Let me know your experiences and any questions you can answer. Thanks