u/cherryvelvetchaos

Already regretting this (and overthought the flair - why) but feel like all other resources (eg friends) are going to have a biased reply.

39F in long term relationship - boyfriend has recently decided to hide porn in a locked folder on his phone. And not that I think this is a bad idea, but I have mentioned it makes me uncomfortable (mainly for his history of cheating). I know he's going to watch porn, jerking off is normal, blah blah blah. But is this just a normal thing now? What happened to going to a site for a quickie and closing out the window?

Mainly just trying to find a way to get myself comfortable since it doesn't seem like something he is willing to change (I am guessing he sees it as a breach of privacy).