I’m feeling so so depressed and crying since few days cuz I broke my roka recently. My question is why do god make two people meet in an arranged marriage setup, fall in love and have a roka and then make things worse. When god knows that the two people are not to be meant together, not written in destiny then why he makes people go through all of this process. The pain I’m having right now is unimaginable.
I recently broke up with the guy I had roka with but I still love that guy. I know he also loves me a lot. I’m not sure if I will ever meet/like someone cuz I chose this guy after rejecting multiple prospects. 😭😭😭I love him with all my senses. What to do his family and my family are against our marriage cuz of the fights we had. But I just can’t forget him.
I’m 26F and my fiancee is 29M. We got rokafied couple of months back then I lost my job. After that I got to see this true colors. He is a narcissist, misogynist, patriarchal mindset guy who just pretended to be so good in and out during the pellichoopulu. All my family is affected with this and of course as a girl I’m the one who has to face the consequences. But even if I say let’s me give an other chance my parents and friends are like no way ure getting married to that guy. It’s better to call off here or u will suffer.
Send me strength guys. My parents are crying and all the relatives will make them feel more bad when they go to any functions.
Hey everyone, I’m a 26F and he’s 29M. Me and my fiancé got rokafied a month ago and I lost my job after roka. Ever since I lost my job his behavior was completely changed. First two months he was so good in talking, texting , making me feel special. But recently he’s been talking like maybe I took the wrong decision, all my friends are more financially stable and didn’t even looking for matches I earn less than them and here I’m. He also says I’m not ready for marriage? I should’ve waited a year more etc etc. dude is 29yr old talks to his frnds every 5mins like even breathing every second is a topic between them. And still can’t take his own decision? Easily gets influenced by frnds.When I call him he just ignores and texts me but whenever I’m with him he just calls in frnds 😮💨I’m getting mad with all of this.
Hi everyone,
I need your suggestions here be honest.
I’m a 26F and he is 29F. So I met this guy through arranged marriage setup and everything was good for 2 months then we had Roka function as well. Then I lost my job and moved to his apartment.After that I get to see his true shades. What he said during initial meetings were completely lie. He smokes , does gambling, and always on his phone with online bettings and stuff. When I question him he was like get a job and tell me not to do I will listen. He gets angry very easily. Yesterday he took me out for dinner and was on his phone only. And that too he was betting. I said why always phone can u keep that aside then he got angry and was saying it’s none of ur business don’t expect me to be like I revolve around u! I was like bruh u took me out for dinner then what’s the point of going out when u don’t spend time with me. He was like I have my priorities. So what am I then?? A girl believed in u and wants to share her life and this is how u treat her? I get to see lot of red flags and I have a list. I’m not sure if I break it here definitely my parents and their parents will have a big fight because of roka is done. I won’t listen whatever u say till u get a job because I’m the one who’s hardworking and earning he says what shit is this? I need help guyssssss