u/chiamtwin_shine

It was last week Wednesday about 6 pm, one hour before the eclips . I was trying to get the train to Amsterdam ( Sloterdijk ), transfer from the train Zandvoort aan zee at station Haarlem.

The train rolled too far in front and all travelers needed to run, there was just one minute left to take that train and I needed to take that train. I was just in time, still don’t know what happened but suddenly I came down between the train and the platform.

I was stuck between the train and the platform, I was deep in it and in shock. A couple of seconds looked like an hour.
Didn’t know how much time left in that minute and I was really panicking.

I couldn’t haul myself onto the platform anymore. And then suddenly arms were there to haul me upwards from that scary situation thinking this was my very last minute in life.

I want to thank so so so very much that gentleman and other people who did resqued me.
It was a traumatic experience but thank God I am alive and I know my body will be recovered too.

From the bottom of my heart thank to that wonderful gentleman and all the sweet people who did resqued me!! I thank all of you for the rest of my life!! I hope you will see this!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️♥️

As an European woman with a good and generous heart I gave him all. My heart, my support, financial support, all support someone can use, time, attention, knowledge, patience, quality, generosity, ideas, opportunities, chances, respect. I was married to him, we were together 4 years. When I visited him I brought gifts also for family. I saved his brothers life, I did let go his daughter to school.

I didn’t just give money no I did gave him real opportunities to make work of it. I actively supported him by finding companies for him to get work and opportunities.

And I believed in him. He has good qualities I know that. But it was never enough. After the over and over insults I finally had enough yesterday. It was our 4th aniversary and instead of celebrating I got again insults.

Today, this morning after another bad night of the emotional abuse I finally broke with him. It’s definitive after all sorry’s, it felt just as another insult because it was meaningless.

I just want to say I loved my Gambian man with all I had and I don’t know if it’s the culture but it was never enough obviously, so I gave up, I said good bye and blocked him. I don’t think I ever want to travel to the Gambian again. I by myself didn’t experience a smiling coast. At all.

Hi all, I would like to know what amount does one person spend on food and drinks in general per month in the Gambia?