u/chiefofme

I worked for and older guy (kinda, he’s 45 and I’m 33) for two years and he was somewhat a mentor to me during that time: I really looked up to him and wanted to please him with my work. It became almost an obsession. His approval meant everything to me. Even up until I have to leave the company, I was so worried what he would think. He was super supportive and supported what was best for me and I thought that was so sweet. During my transition to another company, it was revealed that he had desired me sexually. That was so flattering. But I’m married and I was concerned at how much I liked that he liked me in that way. I began to fantasize about him constantly and every time I was around him I felt like I was going to expload. Then, we both revealed that our feelings went far beyond the physical. We both realized that we were in love with each other. We are both married. And while we love our partners, we are both motivated, career driven individuals who find we have little in common with each other. I’m not willing to leave my marriage at the this time due to a step daughter I’m afraid to lose. But my ex-boss and I began to meet up, at first to kiss, then have sex, then finally planning overnight trips. I find him so attractive because he is so dominant and I’m used to having to be the dominant one in all of my relationships and it’s nice ti be submissive for once. I love what we have. He tells me when I can and can’t sleep with my husband. What changes I can make to my body. And I have to tell him the details of every sexual encounter with my husband. Do yall find this as hot as I do??