I'm 20f. Are 🍭 daddies a thing in pakistan lol. Just curious I'm not looking for one (🤗) . My friend is currently talking to someone and he pays for all of her stuff but she's just using him for money. She doesn't even do anything explicit just talks to him and he showers her with gifts and stuff. Did she got lucky or people like him exists fr who don't know where to spend 😭🙏🏻
I’m a 20M currently studying at IBA. I don’t usually use Reddit, but I’ve been in a bit of a pickle lately, so I made this account to get people’s opinions.
I try to avoid haram relationships. I’ve only been in one before (yeah I know… ooooh shocking 😭)
Most of my friends have done zina, drugs, and alcohol, which is NOT my concern it's their life. The problem is that they’re constantly trying to set me up with girls and pressure me into doing physical stuff with them.
A couple of girls were even willing, but when I refused they called me a “p$ssy” and said I wasn’t “man enough.” That genuinely caught me off guard. I used to think only my gender was tharki. 🥀
I know many people will say, “Change your friend circle” or “Just refuse them.” I’ve already refused multiple times, but they keep pressuring me. As for leaving them, it’s not that simple. They’re good friends in many other ways, and I honestly need them to get through university.
Has anyone dealt with something similar? Any advice on how to handle this without ruining the friendship?
Also, it’s honestly sad how both men and women have made zina seem so normal and easy nowadays.