عادة الانماط الXXFJ ما يقال عنها انهم ما يعرفون وش يبون ويوافقون على اي شيء وماعندهم رأي لكن، هل انتوا تشوفون انكم تعرفون وش تبغون بس ما تحسون بالأمان الكافي عشان تطلبون ؟
مساحه حره للنقاش واي نمط مرحب فيه 🙏
I want advice from ENTJs in this situation because my dad is ENTJ (maybe 8w9)
He came from a very poor background and spent his whole life chasing goals: education, career success, money, stability, status, building multiple income streams, and building a strong future for him and his family. He achieved all of it.
He recently retired at 53, and before retirement he was already scared of losing his sense of purpose or feeling useless. After retiring, he solo traveled abroad for 8 months, and now he mostly stays at home except for occasional visits to the countryside to visit his family.
The problem is that he seems lost now. His whole identity was built around productivity, achievement, responsibility, and goals. Even socially, I’m not joking but all of his friendships were based on work or mutual benefit rather than genuine connection. Sometimes he feels almost robotic to me, like he never really learned how to enjoy life outside of survival mode and achievement.
He’s thinking about working again just to feel useful and use his experience, but even if he goes back to work, eventually that phase will end too.
For ENTJs:
How should we deal with him during this stage of life? What actually helps improve his mental state and quality of life? What kinds of routines, goals, projects, or lifestyle changes helped you personally after burnout, retirement, or losing your main purpose?
الباب مفتوح للكل يجاوب كيف علاقته بأهله والاشخاص اللي يحبهم واذا كان فيه طرف مؤذي في حياتكم كيف تتصرفون معاه ؟
اذكروا نمطكم مع جوابكم 🫵