11w old cries when I put him down when alone — happy to be put down when others are home
Baby is 11wks old.
During the day if I’m home alone and try put him in bassinet,nest he will scream only wants to be held but then still cry’s when bring held some times even when his napping on me will start sobbing wake up then need dummy to settle back in sleep
When some one else is in the house he is quite happy to be put down whether by them or me & can lay in his basinet awake for half hour just playing kicking about or on his piano gym
This makes most days for me really hard because I can’t get anything done & struggle to get ready to get out of the house because I’m alone my partner works
Does anyone no why this happens and how to help it how I can get him down more often during the day independently without having to carry him around 24-7
We are working on day basinet naps, I put him down once asleep sometimes he will last 20min which is progress as before a few wks ago he would cry instantly when transfered or after few mins
And how long do u think they should be held per day/carrier/contact nap and how long is good amount of time for him to be in bassinet/play mat etc per day awake? I also feel guilty leaving him in bassinet awake if I want to make lunch cos I feel like he may feel ignored :(