I kinda like my brother’s friend and don’t know how to approach him
Hello! So my brother has been friends with this guy for a few years now, we’ve invited him for dinner, they went to see a football game with my dad, so my family knows him well.
I’ve seen him a few times at the bus station in highschool and always thought he was kinda cute. For some reason I’ve been thinking a lot about him lately and I’d like to talk to him…
The issue is : he’s friends with my brother. (My brother knows I had a small crush on him back then but that’s it).
The bigger issue is : he doesn’t know me, I don’t even know if he remembers me and I have no idea how to approach him. We go to the same uni but I never ever see him on campus.
Edit : I’m incredibly shy so I had made a secret snapchat account and added him on there, I didn’t realize how weird it was, I deleted the request and the account as well. Thanks for the advice
I found his tiktok instagram and discord but I’m so scared to reach out. I’m scared he might tell my brother or that things might get awkward if I do because he certainely doesn’t like me back at least right now.
I’m 19 btw and he’s probably 21 ? I’m not sure
So what can I do about it ? I don’t like the idea of reaching out through snap but did it anyways, should I dm him on instagram instead ? What’s the safest option, so that I’m sure he will text me back…
I’m so so scared