Flat Owner Issues
Earlier I had shared how my ex flat owner told that she will deduct 6k for a cupboard that she claimed to have bought in Oct last year and then later changed her statement to that it was gifted by her brother. She also messaged to check the cupboard in the initial video she shared of the video before i decided to live there, later she deleted the message as there wasn't any cupboard that looked like the allegedly damaged one (I have screenshots). Sharing the cupboard here, for your reference. So today I vacated the room and as per her set of rules that she had texted before I paid the advance, she said the deposit will be returned the day I vacate the room ehich I did. And I asked for the deposit today and she said she'll pay in 2-3 days, when I insisted that I want the money to pay the deposit here, she only paid 10k and said rest she'll pay by 7th. From 2-3 days to 7. Then she kept on ranting about how I didn't shift according to her advice which I did, she said shift half today (on 31st May) and half tomorrow (1st June) which I agreed, still she nitpicking that I did not shift in the afternoon on 31st as per her. How can I? The flat I was shifting in has to be available around the time, but that she has no capacity to comprehend. Also she complained about how much luggage I have which I didn't tell her before shifting, but was I supposed to since I am renting a room and I will keep my stuff in my room. As she claims I hid things before moving (like luggage), while having no accountability for things she was supposed to do as a flat owner like she said
electricity bill will be generated as per submeter but no submeter installed charged 400 rs for just light and fan
Provided no spare keys, like i literally had to take permission or request to leave the keys if she's going somewhere but she won't leave it so I had to stay outside on multiple occasions
Entered my room without my consent in my absence. When i requested to inform me once she enters she said i am accusing her. And later admitted she has every right to enter my room in my absence
Body-shamed me. Multiple times.
Called me "Ghar ki chipkali" to her mother as I stay inside my room all the time after work or on sundays (I don't like social interaction)
Keeps on knocking the door for little things, if I don't want to go outside for having food with her she keeps on insisting after hearing no multiple times. Last Saturday I was packing up my stuff, she knew and I showed her bed is covered with the clothes as I was packing. She called out 4 times even after saying no until I said yes. She later tells me to learn to say NO
Blamed me for things I didn't do, I a washroom basin pipe started splashing water all over, I didn't know where it was connected so I went to her, she said "tumne hi kuch kiya hoga", I don't like arguing so I called the plumber and paid for the repair.
She rented the place without society head knowledge. The day I shifted, she *forgot* saying that I was not supposed to say I'm shifting here as a tenant to the security. And now my shifting has caused her suffering as she had a long call with the society head.
It was a 2BHK apartment for your context. One room was for me, the other room was hers. That was a long post. I wanted to share all of it here because I don't know how to deal with this repressed anger. People like her won't understand. She deducted 6k from my ex-roommate too, as she didn't give 30 day notice period, which I paid her on her behalf but that's a different story. Thanks for reading.