Can’t orgasm during sex m36
I have this issue where I can easily jerk off and orgasm. I know exactly how to please myself. And for years I was afraid that porn may have been the issue. I have had many relationships and of all the times I have had sex I’ve only been able to orgasm twice. Both while the other person was on top and it took a long while(I do have very bad knees) But my current partner has never made me orgasm. It’s not that I don’t want to. I get close so often, I feel it building. And I want to so badly. But I just never do. I don’t know if it’s she gets tired before I can full climax or she orgasms and just doesn’t want to do anything more for me.
I have gotten to the point of faking it and being good at faking it. I don’t want to ruin anything between us by making her feel bad by me not orgasming.
But I hate it. I hate faking it. I hate not being able to climax. I am SO very attracted to her. But I also feel like things could be a little spicier between us. I feel like she’s maybe more respectable than I am as far as sex is concerned. Like I want to send naughty texts during the day and tell her what I want to do to her and her return in kind and I just don’t know if that’s her. And I feel like that foreplay is part of it for me. The build up and anticipation.
I just don’t know what to do. Please, help me.