u/clarkinum

Give me options please

I'm apparently "decent looking" and "handsome" according to multiple female friends. None of them have interest in me so I am pretty sure they are just being nice to me but whatever. I am exercising a lot, my body fat percentage is 12% and I have visible six packs and toned muscle body.

I have a good paying job, I dress well (mostly vintage stuff), female and male friends says my fashion is "cool", "colorful" and "interesting".

I'm going to therapy and all my friends are saying I have high emotional intelligence, i'm smart and respectful. They say they trust me and I'm reliable.

I got hobies (simracing, 3d printing, crotched...), and people say I'm interesting, I can hold a conversation and I think people I meet are interesting as well

I go outside time to time, dating events, run clubs, night clubs, parties, gym, climbing gym, hobby/maker events. Not every week but every other week or so

I tried dating apps a lot, got 2 matches in the last 6 months, it didn't go anywhere

I talk to women when I'm outside and ask their numbers or try to meet them one to one for coffee or dinner.

Yet I havent got any success whatsoever, it's always rejection, ghosting or something else. I only got 2 dates in the last two years. None of the dates went anywhere, ended with just a small hug. I don't expect more from a first date but its visible that these women weren't into me at all.

What other options I need to try? I don't know where to go from here. I feel like no matter what I do, no women will show interest in me.

TL;DR: I tried all the "good advice", what else?

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u/clarkinum — 23 hours ago