u/classywoodsie123

Piano classes, bachata classes, board games, rock climbing. Basically anything active which helps me meet people my age. I am new to the city and am 25 years old. Any ideas?

25M looking for F

Hi 25M in Midwest. Would love to get in touch with F for date (long term only)

Virgo here, love to workout, play board games, cook, and window shop for homes way above my tax bracket on zillow. Preferably looking for ages between 20 and 30. No ethnicity preference (I am south asian. Mentioning this because ik some people dont like to date certain ethnicities, just dont want to waste anyones time)

Would love to talk more in DMs!

Any good place to click model level photos in louisville? I am new to the city and want to click myself in modeling type clothes and background professionally. Like, I don't want it to send to a agency or something. Just for myself. Would love someone who has good equipment or props to click photos with. Someone who would also assist me in telling how to pose and edit the photos to make me look good. Any idea if anyone in louisville does it?

Also, if you are a model, idc gender, if you are a successful model or struggling, or whatever your body type is. Just a model, can you DM me?

Ps. I am not an agent. Just a super average guy wanting to click good pictures to feel good and need some grooming advice.

I (24M) am originally from a super conservative family. I have done everything by the book. Respected elders, respected women, respected teachers, studied, stayed away from alcohol and other distractions, focus on my life, etc. Recently I was having a conversation with my friend (28F) who has had few bfs. One of which she was sexually involved with. She said how a girl never truly gets over a guy and is afraid how she might never get over her 2nd bf, the one who she was physical with. Thereby never loving the man who comes next as much as she did him. I didn't take her seriously as she is a romance freak and a bit immature (something which even she accepts).

But as you can tell, a boy with background similar to mine is already susceptible to retroactive jealousy. Ideally I would like a girl from similar background as me (never dated, hardworking, loyal, attractive etc.) I have however realised during the conversation with my friend and in general experience that this is too much to ask for and honestly a little unrealistic at my age. Any attractive girl has always had attention, and therefore, a past.

I keep thinking about where my girl is, I dont have trouble attracting girls. But if I come across someone I like and they have a past, I keep thinking about the romantic moments they had with their exes and how everyone remembers their "first" time. It kills me that is something I can't be with that particular person. It eats me up inside. I spoke with my parents and friends about these feelings and they said I shouldn't let past bother me or I shouldn't waste so much headspace in this economy at such crucial junction of my life on girls or their past.

How can I do this? Has anyone ever been in this situation? If any older man or woman is reading this and had a similar path like mine, what no bs guide will you give to a younger person like myself? I really understand what I am thinking is wrong and borderline patriarchal. I want to desperately get out of this but I can't, please help.

If you are a older RJ sufferer and are in married life happy or unhappy. How was your experience? Any advice for younger RJ victims?