Hi! I got an offer for cleaning in a medium hotel with fixed schedules, or cleaning apartments for tourist who stayed in the city with more flexible (I take the apartments I want) but not fixed schedule.
I have never done cleaning before haha the payment is the same (15 euros per hour) so I am not sure which one is better. Any opinions here?
Hi! I have a weeding in a couple of months as the +1 of my bf. So, I got this dress:
A navy cute piece. I was thinking what colors accesories should I wear. I was more convinced of gold than silver and a chiffon of the same color. (Btw if u can give me advice of how to style the accesories that would help me a lot. Long earrings? Short? A necklace would be too much? Is the chiffon even a good idea?)
But my main problem is the shoes. If my dress is navy and just assume I go with gold accesories, I felt like shoes of that color would look bad. So any advice?
Thank u all!!! Hope I get some guiadance hehe
Note: i am not sure if this helps but i am brunette (not white girl lol)
Hi! Next week I have a trial at a hotel — however, I have zero experience in hotels. Maybe a did a mistake? But I said I had a bit of experience cleaning houses time ago (which I don't lol except ofc of my own). I did it because I reallyyyy need a job and I was getting anxious over it. And I actually like cleaning! So I figure I could do it fine.
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Any advice? I am planning to bring my own check list maybe hehe and see a lot of videos and read advices. But idk if someone here can tell me a thing or two 😊😊
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Thank you!!!!
I am a Master's exchange student coming from Mexico, and right now I live in the north of Germany. My bf is from Germany, and I have notice in various ocassions that if we are together, and some of his friends happens to see him, they will approach only talking to AND greeting only him.
I don't expect them to include me in the conversation lol bc so far in those occasions they talked about something related to uni. But they approach, only look at him like I don't exist, say Hi, and proceed to talk. I count like three different people who do this.
I think in Mexico this would be completely rude. And at first, I didn't want to generalize and say "all germans" bc I know german people who are polite and don't do that. But I realized that those people have at least one parent who isn't german lol like for example, my bf always greet my friends whenever he approaches, and his mom from Russia. A guy in our class approach me and my friends one day and he greeted and introduced himself to other people in the table but his mom is not european.
For me is common sense. If I approach my bf in a group and I am interrupting a conversation with his friends, I have to at least acknowledge the other ppl presence.
Is something cultural? Or just someone not being polite? I also think it could be bc I am not european lol maybe
Hi!
Tomorrow I have an interview at Frauenhofer IMT. I have high expectations because I sent my application for another project and someone working there answered me like "Hey, this is not suitable for you for x reasons, but if you are interested, I have this project that might fit your interest". And then he sent me some papers of the project they are working on.
But I am nervous! I am non EU so I dont know how interviews are here, though I want to think noy that different from my hometown.
Did anyone that studied in Germany had an interview ay this institutes? I want to know how the process is. Or any general tips?
Is it a day-wedding or night-wedding?
Hi!! So, I have been invited to a wedding which this is the schedule:
02:30 Civil ceremony
03:30 Coffe + Cake in a boat
07:00 Pizza and party
This is new for me, because I am a forgein in this country and in mine is usually just religious wedding + party, with a waaaay to different schedule (later).
I dont know if it is a day wedding (what colors?!) or night wedding (same?!). First I thought it was a day wedding but the party is at 07 pm and I would look out of place with a bright color? (I was thinking a soft green)
The dress code literally says anything comfortable — you can wear white, red, black or any color. So, no dress code at all. In my country no one would even think of wearing white hahaha
Which type of dresses or colors would you wear?
\- I am coming as a plus 1 of my bf here, and only meet his stepbrother once. So I dont feel comfortable to ask the bride or groom.
Hi! So, I don't know where else could I seek advice.
The thing is, I discovered through the phone that my boyfriend (27M) cheated on me at the beginning of our relationship. To be honest, I KNOW it was bad for me to see his phone and I should not. I don't know why I did it. I woke up at 3 AM and his phone was next to me and it was easy for me to check. I would say it was out of curiosity, because he had never give me a reason to distrust.
But whatever, I checked. I found out that he had a GF that the only broke up one month after we started dating.
My bf lived in a city and her exGF was in another town one hour and a half from where he lives now. I realized that he seemed distant in his texts and didn't really show affection. Apparentely, they didn't see each other except once. Some days he didn't even text her back, and well... I feel bad for her, tbh.
I told him what I saw that same night, at 3 AM. I woke him up and told him that I checked his phone. He wasn't mad that I did that, but just sighed. He told me it was complicated with that girl, because she was the one who hid from him that she had a son until later in the relationship (he told me that story before). And that when he tried to break up with her, she started destroying things and "I had to stay with her". Which sounds like bullshit, I know.
The beginning of our relationship was complicated, too. We didn't make it official as it should be and I was unsure if I wanted to make it formal because I didn't have a bf before him and was afraid of rushing things. But he was patient and he never pressured me to that, or anything, considering once again, I was completely inexperienced with anything romantic/sexually before I met him. I loved that he let me take my time, and I love that he really gets out of his comfort to make my day easier.
He isn't talking with anyone now, I am 100% sure of it. But it still hurts that he took a month to end things with her, even if he was dry and cold before. When I confronted him, he told me he didn't really love her anymore but was unsure how to break up with her since her last outburst. I feel it is worse, he didn't even see that as a relationship or him cheating as something severe, because in his eyes, he was not with her anymore and was expecting that by being cold, she would break up with him instead. From what I read, apparently it was like that. As I said, they didn't meet except maybe once (when she asked, he said always he has something to do).
Honestly, I think he acted like a coward. I could tell he didn't have feelings for her anymore, and she ended up realizing that too.
Apart from that, our relationship is great. With its littles ups and downs, but I feel very happy and I am unsure if I should forgive him, or breaking up with him because otherwise, I feel like I am not respecting myself.
But it has been only seven months since we are together, so Idk if by accepting this at the early stages of our relationship, it's a clever thing to do.
Clearly, my heart and mind are not align now. I hope I can read your opinions and perspective. Thank you.