Should I publicly humiliate the woman my husband cheated with after 2 years
2 years ago my husband had an affair with another woman who knew that he was married. She knew each one of our children and our granddaughter by name. She knew full well going into the situation that he was married, living with me, that we had a family and custody of one of our grandchildren at the time. Eventually I found out about the affair. I confronted my husband about it. It turned into a horrible mess that ended up costing us custody of our granddaughter among other things. My name was dragged through the mud and I was made to look like the bad guy in all of it. My husband lied to protect his reputation as well as hers, telling people that I was a drug addict and that I was the one having the affair instead of him. It was absolutely humiliating at the time. The people closest to us knew the truth, but others in the community that did not really know me believed him because he is with the fire department. I am an extremely private person, I don't make friends easily. He was very outgoing in the community so everyone took his side over mine. Part of the conditions of me staying in the marriage was that he had to tell the truth. I think he did to some people but not everyone. The other woman was never brought into any of this. She lives in another town about 30 minutes from here. People think she's this wonderful Christian woman who would never do something so awful. I know otherwise. They had an affair for almost 2 years if you count the very beginning when they started messaging on Facebook. The message is turned into a full-blown sexual affair. I'll never know the complete truth because neither one of them would ever fully admit to how many times they actually met up and had sex but I do know for a fact that they did at least meet once and have sex during those two years but I'm sure it was more than that. She tried to convince me she didn't even know him at all, he's the one that eventually caved to save his marriage and told me that he did in fact have sex with her but it was only once and after I caught him he ended it because I demanded that it stopped. My question is after 2 years have went by would you post on a local Facebook chat that posts homeworkers like her? I've always felt like she came out of this with no consequences whatsoever. She had a boyfriend living with her at the time that never knew any of this was going on right under his nose. I always felt that was so unfair she never paid for any of it and people think she's this wonderful person when in fact she was not. She had just as much in this as he did when she tore my family apart. Would it be wrong with me to post on social media about her being a homewrecker now after 2 years? It makes me so angry that she never had any consequences for anything! I know I should probably just let it go and that it would be Petty but the petty part of me wants some kind of revenge, I want her to pay in some way I don't feel like she should get to walk away the rest of her life not paying any consequences and no one knowing what she did to me and my family.