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Hello, my mother's psychologist told her to ask me and my sister (2 of her 4 kids, the only women) to write a letter with our issues with her so she can work on it. It all sounds fine and dandy but it's more complex than that.
First there is the audio she sent, here's a transcript: "My psychologist suggested me to work on my relationship with you, the issue is that I still don't know what's your problem with me, it never got clear to me so I want to ask for a favor, if you can write a letter and include all the things you want to to reproach, recriminate and reclaim without offense. I won't get offended at all, but it helps me take it to my psychologist and work with them".
She has a long history of being able to take any sort of criticism and twisting it to be the victim and us the ungrateful kids. Mentioning we are the only women is also not a coincidence, for aome reason she copies everything we do, wants everything we have and blames us for her impending divorce saying we get all my father's attention.
Now, I said ok but I'm unsure because I know she will use it later against us, but at the same time I want to avoid the drama of retracting my decision. What would you consider a wise choice? Ultimately, if not writing it to avoid her using it against me is beneficial in the long run I don't mind the temporary discomfort.
Edit: Thank you for the advice, I will not write the letter, it's only going to perpetuate more harm.
Edit 2/update: Again, thank you everyone for your advice, I truly dodged a bullet. I know the psychologist is at least good enough because it's a public health professional, I suspect the letter was entirely her idea. I told her I wouldn't write the letter, that I have already expressed my grievances plenty a time and that I find it concerning she still says she doesn't know anything, that it makes me doubt the merit of the proposal. This was her answer: "People can not understand and that doesn't make them bad people. Thank you anyways for your help. I still don't understand what did I do so wrong for you to hold this much grudge. Life teaches us always that everyone makes mistakes and we need each other's forgiveness. I have made everything possible to try to understand you and I still can't do it, and your response doesn't help at all. It's obvious that you don't have an interest on having a relationship with your mother. When you want to talk let me know."