u/coolranchdoritos56

▲ 34 r/Sober

90 days on the 18th!

It’s almost scary to look back on even as short as 90 days and see how absolutely defeated and helpless I was. I am soooooo grateful to be here!

Things I’ve noticed
-Better sleep
-More energy
-More motivation
-Better stress response
-Less anxiety (and feeling of impending doom)

Can’t wait to see where else it goes. I’m just so happy for my kids, because I wasn’t even half of the mother I was supposed to be.

Have a good day!!!

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u/coolranchdoritos56 — 19 hours ago
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I’m only 10 days sober today. My mom way of checking on me, between being bipolar and a recovering alcoholic, she texts me “you good today?” And I hate that. It’s so passive aggressive IMO. How about…. “how are you today?” “How are you doing?” “Do you need anything?” Not ummm you good? You drinking? You gonna drink today? I just don’t like it at all, it pisses me off and makes me want to avoid her which makes her think even worse. Idk, am I feeling guilty so I’m reading too much into it or is it just genuinely not a supportive check in? TIA

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u/coolranchdoritos56 — 2 months ago