Can you enjoy bad behaviors?
I was listening to a book review, and while I agreed with many of the points the person made about that book in particular, they went on to argue that enjoying the book's pairing was endorsing abusive relationships in real life.
I strongly disagree with that assessment. Toxic, possessive MMCs are a staple in the romantasy genre, but you better believe I would rip my husband a new one if he acted like some of these characters.
What are your thoughts? Can you enjoy bad behaviors from romantasy books and seperate that from your real life? Or do these books affect your expectations of your partner?