u/cotton_candy_comett

▲ 13 r/Hecate

Why is this happening to me?

I don't normally like posting rants, but I'm lost. I've been working with Hecate for a while now, and it's been a rocky ride.

I have surges of confidence and importance, yeah, but they never last. Most of the time, I just feel apathetic or upset. I'm losing motivation. I feel like I should be doing more. I can't do the spells, I can't afford the books, and i don't have a safe place to talk about this.

I've been learning and growing, and yet it feels like I'm stuck in the same spot. It doesn't feel like anything I do is real. Half the time, it doesn't feel like I'm real. I feel like I need to perform and be this perfect version of me that I'm not. Every little mistake makes me feel like I'm less.

I trust in Hecate, I know she's there for me, but I feel like I'm not showing up enough for her, and I don't know what to do. I guess I just wanted to ask if anybody has gone through this, and if anyone knows why this could be happening?

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u/cotton_candy_comett — 2 days ago
▲ 1 r/Hekate

Why is this happening to me?

I don't normally like posting rants, but I'm lost. I've been working with Hecate for a while now, and it's been a rocky ride.

I have surges of confidence and importance, yeah, but they never last. Most of the time, I just feel apathetic or upset. I'm losing motivation. I feel like I should be doing more. I can't do the spells, I can't afford the books, and i don't have a safe place to talk about this.

I've been learning and growing, and yet it feels like I'm stuck in the same spot. It doesn't feel like anything I do is real. Half the time, it doesn't feel like I'm real. I feel like I need to perform and be this perfect version of me that I'm not. Every little mistake makes me feel like I'm less.

I trust in Hecate, I know she's there for me, but I feel like I'm not showing up enough for her, and I don't know what to do. I guess I just wanted to ask if anybody has gone through this, and if anyone knows why this could be happening?

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u/cotton_candy_comett — 2 days ago
▲ 0 r/Hecate

I need help

I was cleaning today and accidentally knocked some stuff off of Hekate's alter. I put it all back on, but I feel like I messed up. I'm still new to this, and I'm worried that I've made her mad. What do I do?

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u/cotton_candy_comett — 3 months ago