u/cowboykiller_dom

Been out of the game for a bit. I'd like to see if there are support groups or subreddits for questions or venting. Mental health is always a priority

I'm not new to the community or lifestyle but am now in a soon to be dynamic with an amazing woman (Submissive). She's 10 years younger than me but very knowledgeable in herself, her role as well as her needs.

My dilemma is that she hasn't had a dynamic that was also a relationship. In other words I want to date her. Shes again amazing, smart, kind, funny and overall ambitious. I have expressed before my own idea of a relationship. I'm pretty sure she thinks I'm joking because her track record with dominants is horrible (not entirely her fault, fake doms find subs all the time sadly).

What can I do on my end to help her understand the seriousness in my wanting to date her. She's different from my past submissive. This girl is empathetic, way more than anyone I've ever met.