u/curious-questioner12

I (33f) have been single for the last 5 years following a horrible breakup. I’ve been dating around but haven’t had a partner.

Some friends tell me my standards are too high and others tell me not high enough. So I would like some thoughts on my list:
- employed
- kind/empathetic
- culturally curious
- reader
- has hobbies
- likes to travel internationally
The list idea came up one night on a girls night. We wrote every possible thing I want if I could build my ideal partner and narrowed it down to one what’s listed above.

I just can’t tell if I’m blocking my blessings or appropriately discerning who I want to be with.

Thanks!

Hi yall! So I’ve decided to move back home to NJ and thinking I’ll want to buy a place rather than rent. As a single homebuyer, my budget is around $350-400k. I’d need a two bed because I wfh and would prefer to have train access to nyc on the weekends to visit friends.

Im single and don’t have kids, so schools don’t matter. Safety is important since I live alone. Being able to walk to a coffee shop would be great but I’ll also be okay with a 15 min drive.

I was looking around Bloomfield area because I have some friends and family still there. But I’m open to other areas too.

Any thoughts? Thanks!