u/curlyhaz

im bored and wanna talk so ask me questions or anything at all :)

this is a rant btw, so whenever i’m talking to my friends and i’m like disappointed about a guy i like or whatever, they always say not to worry about it and that i “deserve better”. i know they think it’s comforting but for me at least it’s the exact opposite, nothing makes me feel worse than when they say that in relation to a guy i like. the fact is, i’m not as pretty as they are, have never been approached once in my life, and don’t see how i could possibly “deserve better” in this case. i just hate how they assume that i have “other options” when i know i’m not as attractive, social or outgoing as they are. every time i hear “you deserve better” after i tell my friends how this guy wasn’t very nice to me, i just think about how im just trying to take what i can get, and it makes me feel so much worse. i can’t even tell them about how i feel because it’s so embarrassing 😭 (hence why i’m posting on reddit).
this leads me to the next thing that i feel is so untrue, that guys are the only ones that have trouble pulling. i am constantly hearing how us girls have it so easy compared to them yet i have never felt that once- i feel the same as if i were some chud guy.
cause how do i “deserve better” when i’ve never pulled in my life, and the only two guys i ever interacted with were really mean to me and started talking to other girls instead.
i know this probably sounds cringe but i need to rant and it makes me want to blow my brains out when my friends or other girls act like i can do better when i’m struggling to even find one guy that will like me.

any thoughts on this are appreciated 🫶

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ive always been curious about this, bc i know girls always like their friends stories on ig, but do guys also do that with their friends, or would that be gay?

edit: more specifically if it was a photo of them, outfit pic or even a thirst trap