u/dababybeans69

I never knew NNC expanded into Bangladesh 🤣🤣🤣

I never knew NNC expanded into Bangladesh 🤣🤣🤣

Jokes aside this is just insulting to anyone who died fighting for a cause even tho I don’t support the movement, what a fking misery, (credits - 777inmotion on IG)

u/dababybeans69 — 5 days ago

Date recommendations in Kohima

We want to get something nice, no budget. Somewhere where there is good view. Anything except essence, it was pretty bad for me

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u/dababybeans69 — 12 days ago

Abortion Medication in Nagaland — Pharmacy/Requirements

Does anyone know if abortion medication is available through pharmacies in Nagaland, and what the usual requirements are for purchasing it? Looking for information on the legal and safe way to obtain it, preferably around Dimapur or Kohima. DMs are fine.

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u/dababybeans69 — 1 month ago

[URGENT] Need help with international transactions

Im trying to make a payment in USD but my axis platinum card keeps getting declined, anyone who is familiar with it please let me know

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u/dababybeans69 — 1 month ago

What’s the liquid thing that you hang outside your compound or gate to stop dogs from taking a dump

Please help me find it, I can’t find any leads

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u/dababybeans69 — 2 months ago

(Need advice) Tenant owes us almost ₹3 lakh in unpaid rent for 4 years — what are our options?

My family has a tenant who has accumulated almost ₹3 lakh in unpaid rent over roughly four years. They were allowed to stay mainly because of the pity and leniency of my grandparents, and because nobody in my family properly dealt with the situation before it got this bad.
We do have a family lawyer and are considering taking legal action, but one of our biggest concerns is that the tenant might simply abscond once legal proceedings begin. He is a daily-wage worker and, as far as I know, doesn’t have a formal income statement or the financial profile required to take out a conventional loan and settle the amount.
A lot of this situation is the result of my parents being extremely incompetent when it came to managing the property and collecting rent, but I don’t want to keep repeating the same mistakes. I want to take responsibility for sorting this out and recover as much of the outstanding amount as realistically possible.
Has anyone here in Nagaland dealt with a similar situation involving several years of unpaid rent? What legal or practical steps did you take? Is there any way to secure repayment before or during legal proceedings so that the tenant can’t simply disappear?
I’m particularly interested in advice from landlords, lawyers, or anyone who has dealt with rental disputes locally. I will obviously discuss the legal side with our lawyer as well, but I wanted to understand what options have actually worked for people here.

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u/dababybeans69 — 3 months ago

People often talk about Nagaland’s problems as if they’ve always existed, but our own history tells a different story.

The Nagas were among the earliest indigenous peoples in Northeast India to have direct exposure to the modern West. Thousands served in the Naga Labour Corps during World War I and returned after witnessing industrial societies, modern governance, and a world far beyond the hills. Soon afterward, the Naga Club emerged, and educated Nagas were engaging with ideas of representation, self-government, and constitutional politics long before many other communities in the region.
Looking at that trajectory, I believe Nagaland had the potential to become one of the most politically conscious, institutionally strong, and economically developed societies in Northeast India.
Instead, generations were consumed by conflict. The Naga national movement may have been rooted in legitimate aspirations, but the prolonged struggle came at an enormous cost. Decades of insurgency, factionalism, parallel systems of authority, and political uncertainty deprived us of the stability needed to build institutions, attract investment, and create lasting economic opportunities. While much of the region was laying the foundations for development, we remained trapped in a struggle over power and survival.
I often wonder what Nagaland could have become if those same educated leaders, church networks, and internationally exposed Nagas had been able to spend the next fifty years building universities, industries, and effective public institutions instead of navigating decades of conflict.
This is not about questioning Naga identity or rewriting history. It is about recognizing that history is full of trade-offs. We inherited a remarkable tradition of political consciousness, but we also inherited the long-term consequences of a conflict that endured for generations.
Another issue that cannot be ignored is the quality of leadership that emerged over the decades. Successive generations of political and public leaders often failed to translate the sacrifices and political awareness of earlier Nagas into accountable governance, strong institutions, and sustainable economic development. Allegations of corruption, patronage, and self-interest have too often overshadowed long-term vision, leaving many people disillusioned with the state of public life.
At the same time, the legacy of decades of armed conflict has fostered a political culture in which many people remain reluctant to openly challenge those in positions of power. Whether because of fear, distrust, or the enduring psychological effects of living through violence, public accountability has often been weak. Together, these conditions have created a cycle in which poor leadership persists because meaningful civic engagement and accountability remain difficult to sustain.
Perhaps the question we should be asking is not only what went wrong in our past, but why, despite our unique historical advantages, we have struggled to build the institutions and leadership needed to realize the future that earlier generations once envisioned.

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u/dababybeans69 — 3 months ago
▲ 1 r/dpdr

Almost a year diagnosed with DPDR

About a year ago, I was a normal pothead. Then I took way too many edibles and ended up being clinically diagnosed with DPDR.
The first month was absolute hell.
One of the things that helped at the start was skateboarding. Being outside in a large, open space gave my mind something to focus on and made the symptoms feel less overwhelming.
Career-wise, things were harder. I had to leave a well-paying job because the bright white office lighting and lack of natural light consistently triggered my DPDR. I also realized that enclosed or liminal-feeling spaces make my symptoms much worse. The hardest part is when it gets triggered in social situations.
If I could give one piece of advice, it would be this: keep your brain occupied. For me, creating digital art became another outlet that genuinely helped. And on the difficult days, I remind myself that I belong wherever I am. That simple thought has made a bigger difference than I expected.
Recovery isn’t always linear, but it does get better.
This too shall pass. 💙💙💙

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u/dababybeans69 — 3 months ago

The best neighborhood in Kohima?

Just spent a week at my cousins place in Jail Colony, Kohima and imo the colony and the surrounding area is one of the best connected and happening neighborhoods in Nagaland itself. You can get almost anything you want KFC, Domino’s, coffee, Gourmet Grocery, good food, and elixir too 😂 (iykyk) all within a 2 km radius.

What really sets it apart is that it doesn’t feel isolated like many residential areas in the state. Everything is within easy reach, from supermarkets and local markets to cafés, restaurants, pharmacies and essential services. The area stays lively throughout the day, has good road connectivity to the rest of Kohima, and strikes a rare balance between convenience, accessibility and quality of life. For anyone who values having everything close by without constantly needing to travel across the city, Jail Colony is easily one of the most practical and well-rounded neighborhoods in Nagaland.

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u/dababybeans69 — 4 months ago

What is Price of Bombay Sapphire in Guwahati and the closest wine shop from AIIMS

Just want to know the price of the 750ml bottle, thx

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u/dababybeans69 — 4 months ago