ENFPs, thoughts?
I am an INFP female who has a crush on this ENFP male for the longest time, a couple of years. I got to know him as we have mutual friends and would see him every few months at our mutual friend's gatherings. Every time i see him, i'd get so nervous that I just cannot muster up any courage to talk to him. When i first met him, i just thought "wow we'd vibe really well, we'd be really compatible.". Anyways, time flew by and i still have not gotten over this crush or limerence.
Until recently, i managed to actually have a proper human conversation with him and realized that we have so much in common! I had the opportunity to ask him out to a group event a few times and eventually a meet up as a friend. I think I may just like him even more, now that i know him better. But i don't think he is interested in me.
He is respectful, goofy and friendly, a good conversationalist in person, attentive. But no other signs of interest, no flirting, no texting me, no initiating meet ups. I am truly heartbroken :( As an INFP girly i think i have done what i could as i have been the one initiating. Initiating has been hard! Just wanted to hear from the ENFPs, how i should go about this situation... Any thoughts or advice would be good. TYSMIA.