Hi! Can anyone help me look around for a place that's safe, has a private bathroom, bonus if may kitchen rin, for 1 month sana for me and my partner. :) We really love it here, and would like to stay longer!
Thank you!
Pls be warned!!! This will be long.
Context:
My boyfriend (M25) and I (F25) have been together for a little over a year and we live together. Since we started dating, I’ve been supporting him with his dreams, both financially and emotionally. I really don't mind doing it because I love him, but lately, I've been feeling pretty down about the lack of romance on his end.
I try to be really open about how I feel, whether it's good or bad, but things have been confusing lately. For Valentine’s Day, we didn't go on a date at all, even though I told him I’ve never actually been on a Valentine's date and really wanted to. He did get me flowers, but he bought them from a friend and picked them up while I was waiting in the car.
The only other time I got flowers was when our roommate told him to get me one to apologize because he forgot our date.
Whenever I try to talk to him about wanting more romance, I end up having to reassure him that he’s still a great partner just so he doesn’t get defensive.
I also recently saw an old album on his phone of him and his ex-girlfriend, and it showed them going on actual dates and him getting her flowers. When I asked him about it, he said that relationship was different because they didn't live together and could only see each other when they went out, while he and I live together.
On top of that, our physical boundaries have been weird. He constantly touches me or grabs my boobs in completely non-sexual situations. I’ve told him he needs to ask first, but it keeps happening. And he says okay.
*I don’t mind being touched, I just don’t like it when it’s not done intimately. And when he does it compulsively, it feels different to me.*
Then out of the blue the today, we were having a wholesome moment when he pulled his dick out and started jerking off as a joke (it happened so fast, it was like 2-3 seconds I think), I was totally caught off guard and told him to do it again exactly the way he just did. He got embarrassed, tried to grab my boob again, and I said no.
He went quiet for a bit after that.
Later on, he told me that I made him uncomfortable by asking him to repeat what he did, which turned into a really long, heavy conversation. I realized that I shouldn’t have put him on the spot like that even if I was annoyed by his action. It didn’t feel nice for me at all to see him hurt by it.
I love him and I just want to get past all of this so we can feel normal about things but I am so tired. Does his logic make sense to anyone outside of this? I’d love to hear anyone out and be told I’m wrong 😭🙏 I feel like he doesn’t like like me.
I also have expressed to him I don’t mind letters, notes, and don’t need anything that’s expensive. I actually prefer them! He knows that. I value the thought so much more… so what’s holding him back? 🫠
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