u/damnweirddude

Hey zusammen!
Eigentlich war dieses Jahr kein Urlaub geplant, es sollte für gemeinsame Anschaffungen gespart werden.

Naja, long story short: Die Beziehung ist vorbei, ich bin ziemlich fertig und will am liebsten einfach mal wieder weg.

Mein Budget ist ziemlich schmal (max. 800€) und ich habe Mitte August 12 Tage frei.
Jetzt schau ich nach Reisen und falle fast vom Hocker, wenn ich so die Preise sehe.

Kann jemand von euch günstige Reiseziele oder wirklich gute Vergleichsportale empfehlen?

Ich reise alleine, bin sowohl offen für Natur als auch für (Groß-)Stadtleben, würde aber sehr gerne mal wieder das Meer sehen.

Habe überlegt vielleicht einfach zu backpacken? Aber dafür kommen mir 12 Tage etwas zu wenig vor… Oder habt ihr da Erfahrungen?

Also, immer her mit euren Ideen, ich danke euch im Voraus!

I am done. I have no idea what further to do, how to act or if to act.

My (28m) gf (24f) and I broke up because I could not meet her expectations and kept her waiting on important stuff, mainly in the household. She suffers from bad back pain because of a herniated disc. Also, she has severe depression and is probably suffering from BPD as well.

We always fought over the same shit ending with one of us crying or upset. She could not take it anymore and ended the relationship around 3 weeks ago.

We still live together (50m2, 2 bedrooms) and it‘s not going good. One of us crashes out sooner or later.

She voiced the desire to be dead and to never wake up again more than once in the last couple of days. Right now, she is very drunk and probably took some benzos as well. She‘s crashing out big time, she already broke a mirror as well as a big glass, leaving shards and shouting at me.

Last we spoke she shouted that I was a miserable piece of shit, threatening to punch me if I don‘t leave her alone.

I am very concerned as I am scared she might hurt herself but I am also suffering from depression and thought of ending things lately.

I don‘t really know what I expect of this, I guess venting helps at least a little. I feel insufferable and the pain is eating me up from the inside.