How do you balance being nice to a coworker and refusing to help them with their work?
I have an older coworker who I suspect is not even trying at this point. Our manager told them to upload a document and share it with the team. I've taught them many times how to do that. It's literally a 10 second process of dragging and dropping a document to upload. They still ask me to do it for them. I have my own damn work to do and don't want to help them. Our manager assigned something to them during our team meeting. We spent 5 minutes discussing it and I added all the content. Our manager then told them to expand on it and send it to the team the next day. My coworker waited until the next day to send it to me and asked if I had anything to add. I looked at his document and he literally added nothing. It was everything I added during our team meeting. What's even worse is he used Copilot to send me the email. It's filled with emdashes. He couldn't even bother to write a 2 sentence email without Copilot.
I think he's checked out at this point cause he can retire whenever he wants. He's a nice guy and we get along, but I don't want to help him anymore. It's honestly annoying, but I also don't want to throw him under the bus to our manager. What the hell am I supposed to do? We're already short on staff cause HR isn't letting us backfill an analyst position that's been open for 2 years.