How do i provide an understanding support?
Hello,
So, i am trying to be a better man for my fiance who has been in the nursing profession for just about 2 years. She is honestly very good at being a nurse, even got employee of the month. She manages about 3-5 patients in a 12+ hour shift.
There have been nights when she gets home and she is just stressed out because she isnt sure what may happen to a patient after she has left work. And no, she doesnt go into details nor does she share PII.
I am an active duty military, i recruit, my stress from work doesnt relate, and i tend to find ways to make my mind distracted. She doesnt so, i do my best to get a picture of what happened that day and see if she potentially failed somewhere or perhaps shes just not seeing something in front of her.
Soo, is there anyone who has a souse, male or female who is a nurse that typically deals with high stress situations at their workplace and cant seem to shake it, and so you being a good souse, how do you show support and provide constructive empathy i guess, and motivation?