u/darlingdeadgirl

sexual tension over text …

I am in my first sort-of relationship. He’s older than me and sexually experienced, but has never led me into any temptation, has never touched me and agreed to let me take everything as slow as I am comfortable with.

The thing is, I’m terrified of sex, I don’t think I could approach him for that until we are married if we even end up together at all — but we text constantly. I’ve been more and more tempted to say things over text to him because I know there are not real ‘consequences’ like there are for having actual intercourse.

I guess I would just like anyone’s advice on this because, well, I’m extremely tempted, but not sure if he would reciprocate anyway. He’s a very a Godly man but doesn’t belong to any denomination or follow an actual doctrine — he just got his first Bible to actually study the Word but his behavior is more morally correct than most Christian men I actually know.

Just would like advice on how to get over this temptation.

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u/darlingdeadgirl — 14 days ago