u/deary44

Family Planning / Lateraling

I’m in the middle of interviewing to lateral to a demanding but better firm and I just found out I’m pregnant. I’m frustrated with the timing but obviously have to prioritize my family planning (and of course we want to grow our family). I feel bad that I have to essentially end this interview process because I feel like I’ve wasted their time (even though this certainly wasn’t intentional). Should I let them know about my situation and ask to revisit the conversation after my maternity leave? The problem is that I feel like this was the prime moment for me to lateral and I might be too senior for them next year. It really is a great opportunity and I’m just bummed the timing didn’t work out this year. What would you do in this situation? Looking for advice and opinions, thank you in advance.

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u/deary44 — 12 days ago