38 divorced and alone
Here in a few weeks is the fifth anniversary of getting my divorce from my wife. Just for a quick summary. I’m 2020 I found out my then wife had been cheating on me. She told me she had been sleeping with a male coworker friend from an old job, she then also told me she had also been sleeping with my own sisters husband (aka asshole-in-law). My sister also knew that they were fooling around and was ok with it and didn’t say anything about it to me. Everyone got what they wanted out of it, my ex found someone else and was dating them by the time the divorce was final. Her friend got who knows how many times to do with her what he wanted, and My asshole-in-law got to get his jollies off and got to stay married to my sister and have another kid with her who was conceived during the affair. Everyone got to be happy…except me.
Now here it is 5 years later and I’m still single, but not for a lack of trying. I’m not sure I know how to meet people. I’ve tried so many dating apps well more than one time each. I’m 5 years I’ve had only a few dates and nothing that went past the first date. I have no idea what I’m doing wrong, how to date, how to meet someone or even what I like anymore or how to learn that. Anyone have some actual advice that could help me?