u/deepak_pareek_03

Samajhdar log you can start!!!!!!!!

So yeah guys I am back and the response I got in 1st part was decent and second part was supposed to come long time back but due to my college stuff and all I couldnt manage time but today I am there. Before starting I just wanted to tell that your suggestions and opinions and welcomed in the comments and if you have any doubt or feel like this part I have written is not correct then feel free to ask. LETS STARTTT!!!

1. RELATIONSHIP IS OK UNTIL IT BECOMES AN OBSTACLE : So,this is a topic where most of us are suffering. You see we are in a age where testosterone and estrogen are high and everyone wants to be in a relationship [except few]. It is normal to be in a relationship but the important thing is that it should not become an obstacle to your goal. I think so you should choose a partner who is like serious about his future goals ambitious and yeah supports you. If he/she doesn't value or respect your goals just leave him/her but if you find a partner who is matured and like support your ideas. Then your relationship will work and be healthy also on the other hand you will not feel bounded or trapped.

2. MINDSET "I AM THE BEST" : Personalities like Shah Rukh Khan and Virat Kohli are considered "KING" in their respective fields though they are aware of it that that there are people who are equal to them or in some areas better than them but they repeatedly tell them "I AM THE BEST". Now this sounds a little egoistic to the other person but they won't be there for you in tough time. You just have to remind yourself I am best and put tremendous effort in particular thing to actually be. This thing has to be fixed in your subconscious mind so that whenever you feel low this comes from your inside and again you get energetic.

3. CLARITY : Most of you are in Class 12 and I know it's a early stage but keep it clear or form a road map of what to do in future right now. Decide which competitive exams to give which field to work on everything has to be planned now because if you think now in a time where most of them are clueless and put consistent effort to it, you will be better than them and a major advantage will be held by you.

4.STOP ROMANTICISING YOUR CLASS 12 : Now because of social media I have noticed that students are in very much "ZINDAGI NA MILEGI DOBARA" wala mood. They are having school bunks,pranking teachers,planning parties. Just why???? I understand that it your last year of school life and memories have to be there but I think no one wants a bad memory. I suggest everyone to just avoid doing this just go for signing day, one day farewell and after party if possible apart from this nothing. Just focus on your boards and JEE/NEET/CUET. Remember : grinding hard and getting a goated college and seeing your parents proud is the best memory a student can have in his life and you have a chance now so just "LAG JAO YAAR".

So,let's keep it here today. I hope this could bring some change in your or make you think. Also comment whether part 3 should be there or not. Have a nice day.

Heyy everyone, there's a popular saying that a failed man can teach you more than a successful man. It is quite popular and relevant today because often there are people who work very hard and still couldn't make it because they made some mistakes. Now these mistakes could be very small but they cost you your upcoming years. So, I would like to share my experience and mistakes to you so that you won't repeat is in your life because "FAILURE HURTS A LOT".

1. GOOD FRIEND CIRCLE : My father always told me that you are always the average of 5 people you hang out with the most. In this age, you feel that it doesn't matter at all, but it does. If you hang out with people who have some aim in life or are always interested in learning something new, you will also adapt their habits. I did mistake that I had chance to change my school and go to a better school where there are good students and they are better than my previous school's students. So yeah if you want to be best,hang out with the best.

2.ACADEMIC + EXTRACURRICULAR : Now this is a little complex thing. I also understand that a person cannot be good in everything but not participating in it is very wrong. I advise each one of you to actively take part in inter-class, inter-house,inter-school competitions. This will improve your communication skills and builds confidence. Try to get certificates because in top central government universities like DU there are ECA Quotas through which you can apply and certificates help a lot during that time.

3.PREPARE FOR COMPETITIVE EXAMS MUCH EARLIER : I know most of you will be giving competitive exams like CUET, JEE,NEET,Christ,Xaviers,IPMAT,which ever exam you are preparing for start very early like 9-10 months earlier because nowadays there is cut throat competition in the country and in order to conquer this competition, starting early than others is crucial. Last minute preparation is useless.

4.COMBINATION OF MOTIVATION AND CONSISTENCY : Most of you watch youtube and know "Sourav Joshi". The main reason behind his success is not luck or some magic. He worked for 8 years without skipping a single day and now he's the biggest vlogger in the nation. Same applies to you all. "Rome wasn't build in a day" you should keep yourself motivated and consistent to achieve your goals. Working for 3 days and rest for 1 day, momentum lost. So,if you attain this deadly combo, you are unstoppable.

Guyss I have much more to say but first I want to read these and give your feedback whether if affected to you in anyway. If it does I'll again post some more things that will help you become better ❤️

Is it worth it ???

Guyssss give me genuine advice whether I should join muj or not and what's the placement and internship things every pros and cons.

So stressed about these college admission pls someone help me out !!