u/defnotfushi

hi, i'm a student ng main and not an athlete, pwede ba magjogging sa oval ng maryheights campus?

I know it's been months and idk if you're in this sub but if ever the odds are in my favor and this post comes across your feed,

I want u to know that I still think about you sometimes, we were nothing but I hope you're well:)

Problem/Goal: I want to move out of our house and live independently.

Context: F(20) I am a second year nursing student, full scholar po ako at nakikitira lang kami sa bahay ng tita ko. Tatlo po kami: ako, kuya ko, and my uncle (not the owner). Magkapatid po ang tito at tita ko, pero matagal na po silang magkaaway since yung tito ko is laging nambababae, that's why iniwan siya ng original family niya kaya kaming mga pamangkin niya ang kasama niya sa bahay. Yung may ari ng bahay is yung tita ko, and matagal na niyang pinapalayas ang tito ko. Ang promise naman po niya sa amin dati is saka lang niya ibebenta ang bahay pagkagraduate ko dahil bunso po ako, yung kuya ko is graduating na this semester ng criminology. Ang problem po kasi is kapag umalis ang tito ko, kami ang magshoshoulder ng bills sa bahay, and sinabi po ng mom ko dati na hindi niya kaya because we live in a city with high costs of living.

If you're wondering kung nasaan ang parents ko, my dad is dead and yung mom ko po nagtatrabaho siya as a stay-in housekeeper near us pero ang binibigay niya lang is allowance namin ng kapatid ko which is sakto lang talaga for our expenses, and she rarely even visits us. She would rather go home to her boyfriend than visit her kids. To put it simply, she just doesn't give a fuck about her children.

Now, my tita is really planning on seling the house, so we would have nowhere else to go. We would end up following our tito kung saan man siya magrerent ng rooms, and sasama po kami sa kaniya kasi nga I don't think my mom has any plans of taking care of us except financially.

This situation is really draining me, napapagod na po akong maipit sa gulo nila. I just want to have a peaceful life while studying. I am planning on working na po to sustain myself and leave them, pero hindi ko po kaya ang maging service crew or any physical work dahil sa school sched ko (3 days 7-6pm, 3 days duty na minsan umaabot ng sunday dahil sa night shift), and my school scholarship forbids me to take on any part-time jobs (nasa contract po namin).

Bale, ang magiging gastos ko lang naman po is yung magiging rent, city services, at allowance ko dahil libre po ang tuition ko. Ano po kayang mga work or side hustles ang pwede ko pasukin? Please help.

Previous attempts: I tried looking for online jobs such as VA, freelance graphic designing, and such pero ang hirap po makakuha.