u/defycgn

Vorgestern (Sa) wollte ich im Rhein-Center parken und mit der Stadtbahn bequem zum CSD Straßenfest fahren. Währenddessen wollte ich mein BEV laden.

Alle Ladepunkt (nur mickrige 50KW) frei, hätte mich schon misstrauisch machen sollen. Laden nur mit Ladekarte. Gut, wird schon keine Unsummen kosten. Also angesteckt, Aral Pulse ADAC Karte dran gehalten und los gings. Wollte gerade schon gehen, da hat mich mein ungutes Bauchgefühl zum Glück gezwungen doch mal in die Pulse App zu gucken.

Bin fast vom Glauben abgefallen. 75 Cent die kwh 😡 und Blockiergebühr ab 45 Minuten? Haben die einen totalen Rappel? Natürlich direkt abgestöpselt und umgeparkt.

Was sollen diese Mondpreise? Parkgebühren kommen ja noch on top.

Hat jemand einen Tipp wie man da günstiger laden kann, falls ich dort mal wieder bin?

His answer was ‚I like you as a super friend‘. This was a quite clear statement to me as a nt. translated: ‚i doesnt feel the kind for you you feel for me‘. I answered ‚same here, let‘s continue as before‘.

And we met and had really nice times together as friends. I feel it‘s a gigantic privilege to have him in my life, someone who can sort things in his head this way and continue a very deep friendship even after I opened my heart in front of him. (Which I never did before in this depth).

But of course I still have big feelings for him. How do neurodiverse brains work here in case of compartmentation? If he doesn’t feel ready for a relationship yet, does he maybe want activities in other areas like physical? Deep pressure, giving him physical excitement while him being passive? I know, from a neurotypical point of view this posting sounds kind of odd. But I feel puzzled, I‘m absolutely open to change my point of view about how relationships should work. But I nevertheless don’t want to look like a creep to him.

I love him as a whole person, and all his aspects. He‘s absolutely great and I can‘t imagine my future live without him, neither as a friend nor a partner.

If you are willing to answer me a few questions just drop me a note in the chat please.