“Will me and X be good friends?”
Cards: Tower / Child / Stork / Clouds / Lily
My friend and I have been friends for around a year. We both have common interests in anime, games, and other nerdy topics. We hit it off fast in our friendship.
Unfortunately, earlier this year we both developed feelings for each other and we did try it out for a while, we eventually worked out that a relationship wouldn’t work with one of us sacrificing significantly. That conversation came to a head earlier this week.
Their standpoint is that we could remain friends and if us getting together happens, it’s up to the universe. My standpoint is that I don’t feel like us continuing being friends is helpful in our situation, especially if I still have feelings towards them.
My interpretation of the cards is “If I or my friend established boundaries (Tower) at the beginning of the ”new” friendship (Child) , that it will evolve/change (Stork). And while there might be some confusion and uncertainty (Clouds), it could lead to peace (Lily). “
I really don’t want to jeopardize the friendship but at the same time don’t want to feel like I been sidelined/back up plan for the future.