u/dndnsjakab

Am I the crazy one?

So for context, the relationship between my mom and dad was never that great. He’s always mad, yells, criticize everything me and my mom do. Recently they started going on dates more (which they never really did) and stuff. Today i called them to ask how long will it take us to go from destination A to destination B and said i hope it won’t take much longer than normal because of the high traffic and my dad started complaining that i was complaining (i wasn’t even complaining bro) and the my mom couldn’t hear me (the signal wasn’t working or something idk) and she hung up and called me again. I andwered “yes” in a bit higher note (i did not yell) and my dad started yelling and being so mad that i “yelled” and started bringing up other stupid things i usually do, which wasn’t necessary and then i said calmly “why are you talking just to talk? I didn’t even yell” and he got VERY mad and started yelling at me and even at my mom for trying to say something to him and then my mom started yelling at me too. And he always does things like this and suddenly my mom started taking his side more and i feel like i am going insane. Am i the problem? If not, what should i do?

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u/dndnsjakab — 7 days ago