u/dovakhin604

This could either be a time you did it to someone or someone was doing it to you but I wanna know if anyone else had a moment like myself where you went from wanting to belive it was real to seeing it and knowing it was.

Mine for example was the night I first successfully hypnotized someone. My girlfriend at the time mentioned how she had always wanted to try it and I had some experience in researching it. I had tried on some people in the years prior but was never successful. She agreed and I did the hands being magnetized together induction. I remember thinking it was actually working and going for the sleep trigger. Funnily enough as I did that I heard her begin to say something which I later learned was her trying to say I don’t think this is working.

I remember after the trigger she was slumped over in front of me and I was almost waiting for her to sit up and tell me it didn’t work. To my shock however it didn’t and upon further inspection I realized I had done it. Just wanna know if anyone else shares an experience similar to this and if so what yours was

I (m26) and my girlfriend (f26) have been together ab 6 months now. I genuinely love her and see myself marrying her but there is one sticking point in our relationship and I’ve had a hard time coming to an understanding on it. For some context we went to different colleges and live ab 2 hours away (I’m soon to be moving closer for grad school). The college I went to was no exaggeration a 70-30 split girl to guy. That on top of it being a heavily Christian school led most of the guys going there to be missionary kids (the type) or complete idiots who typically dropped out before jr year. All this goes to say most of my friends throughout college were females and a couple became rather close friends of mine.

My gf is adamantly against me talking to or hanging out with girls to any capacity and considers it disrespect to our relationship. While I do not actively search out hanging with women in 1 on 1 settings these days I’ve found myself still encountering them due to my roomates having just ab the same friend group and inviting them to our home. Basically anytime this does happen a huge fight ensues and the only way out is bear through it. It’s gotten to the point I’ve contemplated lying ab who I’m seeing and where just to avoid having to cause conflict

I don’t write all this bc I wanna make my gf look bad. She’s otherwise the sweetest and most loving person I’ve ever encountered but this is her one area she can get insanely hostile from. I basically just want to know whether I am in the wrong and if so how I can find a way to better address the situation. I’m just tired of fighting and want to find a way to better understand where she’s coming from bc where I am rn is at a complete loss