AITA for telling my sister im done driving her everywhere after she kept saying she'd sort her own transport out and never did
So i (29f) have a younger sister (26f) who lost her licence about a year ago after racking up too many points, totally her own doing, and ever since then ive somehow turned into her unpaid taxi service without ever actually agreeing to it.
It started reasonable enough, the odd lift to work when the buses were bad or a run to the supermarket on a sunday. Every time she would say it was just until she got herself sorted with a bike or worked out the bus routes properly.
The thing is she never sorted any of it out. The bike never got bought and the bus app never got downloaded, and i ended up doing the work run three or four mornings a week plus random evening pickups whenever she texted, and id just do it because saying no felt mean.
A few weeks ago she asked me to drive her forty minutes each way to a weekend thing with her mates and i finally said i couldnt keep doing all of this. I told her i was happy to help out now and then but i wasnt going to be her default lift anymore and she genuinely needed a real plan to get around.
She got really upset and said she couldnt believe i was abandoning her over something that wasnt even her fault, which is wild because it absolutely was her fault, and that family is meant to help each other without keeping count of every little favour.
And thats the bit thats stuck with me, because i wasnt counting favours, i just realised id quietly built my entire week around her not having to fix her own problem. Now shes barely replying to me and our mum keeps hinting i was a bit harsh about it.
I cant tell if i pulled the rug out from under her or if im finally just refusing to keep enabling something she has zero reason to ever sort out while i keep showing up. AITA?