Frequent Urination
So around 2020 I started to experience frequent urination. I originally thought it was a UTI and scheduled an appointment to see a doc but after a week it went away. Then a week later it came back again and I again scheduled another appointment but then again it went away after a couple days. Then after another week it came back and never went away again. I tried every medication possible. Urine always comes back clean and no infection. So my doctor suggested putting me on Alfuzosin and we did a procedure where he put a camera in my urethra. He told me that my bladder neck is tight and it's causing this frequent urination and the only way to really get rid of it is to have surgery and burn part of the wall. But I'm 31 yo and don't have kids so I'm afraid of retrograde ejaculation. Alfuzosin has helped somewhat because I used to pee every 20min but I still get up at least 4-5 times during the night. Couple days ago a different doctor suggested we tried oxbyutonin but so far it just makes me feel like I can't empty and have to push to get the urine out but the frequency feeling is still there. Living my life like this is very hard because I have to always focus on using the bathroom and it takes me away from other activities and work. Can anyone help me, any advice? It's been over 6 years now and no doctor knows how to help me and I never seem to get better. Thank you guys