Anyone develop psychological ED after failed relationship?
Disclaimer, I’m a woman. Just looking for some advice regarding my bf (50).
He’s extremely fit, works out regularly as well as has a physically demanding job. Eats healthily. Takes some amount of testosterone (idk the dosage but it’s small from what I understand).
We have been together for a year and he has always been able to get an erection and have sex for about 10/20 minutes but then will lose it and the rest of the night is him getting hard and losing it over and over. Sometimes he will finish after a long while of that, but often not.
I want to make it clear that I do not mind him getting hard and losing it. I love him and I love his dick. It’s perfect for me. But lately he’s been increasingly obsessed with not losing his erection which I feel like is making him lose it more. Before we got together he was 1 year post a divorce in which his wife was unfaithful. I know it hurt his confidence but I think he was having some erection issues before the divorce. I know some of it could be age but I am just looking for some advice on what I could do to support him. How can I help him get out of his head? I’m very satisfied with our sex life and I tell him that.
He is against therapy.