What happens after?
My husband of 10 years and I will be divorcing soon. He has been my best friend for 14 years and I’m struggling with how to talk to him now that things are changing. If it were up to me I would just cut ties and never talk to him again but we have a 2 year old daughter. Obviously we will have to communicate regarding our child and all of the things that go along with it. I’m just having trouble now that it feels like we are different people. I’ve seen people who are divorced that still get along, work, and/or hang out with each other. I’ve just never been in this situation and it just feels awkward. It’s like he wants me to continue talking to him like nothing has happened. Although I was (emotionally) hurt in what led up to now I am past all the big feelings and just want to move on. So I guess I’m asking how do I talk to him like a normal person? How do I move on and still get along with this person who I have so much history with but who’s no longer my best friend and husband?